In arranged marriage,you marry someone whom your parents bring and meet for a single time,for 30 minutes..You see him/her for the next time during engagement and the thrid time ,on wedding day..Great drama..The cycle moves round and round for generations..
I won’t prefer love marriage in today’s society where i will be seen as a outstanding..err..outspoken..or however you name it ..The label of ‘Oh,her’s was love marriage’ and it implies directly that i ahve gone against my parents ..If ’society’ finds no beef between couple and parents,then they say “Oh,her/his parents adjusted and compromised to her choice..poor them,didn’t get a chance to do their responsibility of choosing right mate for their daughter”..Hell,marriage is a parent’s business today..Don’t tell me it is happening in rural places and that it happens in culturally or religiously doomed places..NO,it happens till date in urban educated families.. So either you go with it or have a secluded life..Its your choice..
Parents say they want their kids to be happy in marrige..and for a girl everythign after marriage is to be adjusted or compromised..Nothing more nothign less bcoz divorce is more shameful than love marriage..
Arranged marriages lasted longer bcoz girls were seasoned to remian submissive and programmed to be mute..But i dn’t think arranged marriages (unless couples agree willingly) will last longer anymore before if men or in-laws show their egoistic nature,today’s girls are sure to kick them out of her life..Yesterday’s women had no choice but to remain silent suffering,unlike today’s girls who are financially or intellectually dependent..When a point of saturation reaches,girls would and should kick out these people ..
The other side of this independence is that women are less ‘adjusting’ and hence therez issues every now and then.
In love marriages,there is lot of expectation involved and again this leads to issues..
So,what is my comment all about??Sorry,i have no idea what was it that i meant to say..Both are doomed unless we have a society tomorrow which sees kids as individuals and not somebody to is expected to run the cycle round and round..
Nimmy, I guess in many families having a love marriage is not approved of. However this is changing in urban India. I have cousins whose parents were quite relieved that they found their own husbands and it was the same with my parents. They were happy with my choice of partner. But it differs in different families…and in some families it will be disapproved of. And yes you are right. Grown children should not be seen as kids but as individuals…but in India we see grown kids financially dependent on their parents too

Love marriage is when girl and boy fell in love.
Arranged marriage is when all the family members chose some one for girl or boy. even if one says " No "..family pushes them to say yes.

Marriage is the junction, where you reach any way. In the first instance first you love, and then reach the junction, and in the second instance, you reach the junction first , then love. In both cases the ultimate result is the one and the same, both become married couple. If the mind set remain compatible, the marriage goes on smoothly.

1. An arranged marriage is a marriage that is arranged by persons other than the two who are getting married. On the other hand, a love marriage is a marriage which is arranged by the partners themselves.

2. Unlike love marriages, arranged marriages are more stable.

3. In an arranged marriage, the couples must get the consent of their parents. On the other hand, in most of love marriages, the partners will not need the consent of the parents, or elders.

4. In arranged marriages, men are always more dominant than women.

1. arranged marriage is a marriage that is arranged by persons other than the two who are getting married. On the other hand, a love marriage is a marriage which is arranged by the partners themselves.
2.In an arranged marriage, the couples must get the consent of their parents. On love marriage side the partners will not need the consent of the parents or parents.
3.In arranged marriages, men are always more dominant than women.

Well In my opinion now most people prefer to have love marriage together with arranged marriage as you can kill two birds with one stone. In other words In love marriage, you marry your own girlfriend. In an arranged marriage, you marry somebody else's girlfriend!

Mostly in our country arranged marriage is a more popular thus it is a symbol of discipline thus love marriage is not a bed but out parents like it so love marriage is a best than arranged marriage because they will be understand and liked each other in this marriage but arranged marriage is not a good but get some time understood each other in arranged marriage.

Love marriage is marrying someone you are truly in love with, like you have a great feeling of affection towards the other person. whereas an arranged marriage, could be a forced marriage, wherein the parents of two people just pick who their son/daughter should marry. this is not always a bad thing because the people involved could fall in love as well.

There is vast difference between love marriage and arrange marriage.In love marriage you marry to a person with whom you are in love but in the arrange marriage you must love the person you marry whether you like the person or not. I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage the only thing that requires is understanding and habit of let go is the best away to carry on life happily.

we can not figure out whhich is better? for different poeple has different situation. no matter it is Love marriage or Arranged marriage, the most important is the end is happy.